lay offs- a blessing in disguise

Taken from the economictimes.com,this article gives us an encouraging veiw about the opportunities knocking t the door,which at one point of time,we might have missed. The last job is not the last-there are many,the only thing is that we need to come out into the open and search for the talent within us. Let us see what Priya C.Nair has to say in her article:

"Whether you call it a lay-off , downsizing or cost-cutting , the entire process can be quite traumatic for the laid-off employee. Although it’s acceptable for him/her to experience different emotions, it’s more important to move beyond the emotion and utilise the available time, constructively , to kick-start the beginning of a new phase in one’s life; one that is optimistic and enriching. Because even if it takes a little while, you can still bounce back. Industry experts suggest utilising this time to figure out your priorities while also being positive and goal oriented, for you may never know how it will turn out to be a golden opportunity in disguise.

“View a pink slip as a temporary hiccup in your career. It’s a good time to get introspective by asking yourself questions that will help influence your long-term decisions like what kind of a job do I want, where do I want to work, where do my strengths lie, should I change my area of specialisation, etc., ” opines Mujtaba Merchant, Team Leader, Peopletree HR Services Pvt Ltd. A pink slip can also be viewed as an opportunity to explore other career avenues as well. “This period offers you an opportunity to study, research and explore new industries, markets, job roles, etc. Utilise this time for selfevaluation , fine tune your skills by enrolling for training/refresher courses, pursue temp jobs or freelance projects as you need to even look at earning as well, during this period,” adds Merchant.“Reflecting on what one has - like good health, supportive spouse, parents or friends, etc, compared to others helps creating the much required positive attitude,” says Marcel Parker, Chairman, Ikya Human Capital Solutions.

Always keep an updated resume handy that is accessible to friends and recruiters. Also, networking through social networks plays a big role towards fetching a job that suits your qualifications.“Also, a person must be a little flexible during such times about compensation structures as companies wouldn’t be able to offer you pay packages, as per your expectations,” suggests Anupama Parthasarathy, Founder & CEO Global Executive Talent. For a downsized employee this tumultuous time can actual ly offer an array of career-en hancing opportunities. All you need is an optimistic approach and a willingness to learn!

Prepare an updated resume and send it to organisations you believe would hire someone with your qualifications and work experience. Even if you get only one response, use that as an opportunity to explore further. Be well networked with colleagues, head hunters and executive search firms and do a regular followup , even though there are no immediate openings. Update your skills by investing in short-term training courses. Try to get a mentor who could advice and guide you, during times of distress. Analyse your financial situation and prepare for hard days, in advance."

WELL....doesnot that come as a breather?

I am one of those who have been a victim of these winds since last 20 days. I would like to share what I have as plans in the time gap that I have really got as an opportunity.

Registering for Ph.D ,I plan to go ahead with my passion for teaching and look forward to establish myself as a Professor in the field of Financial institutions and markets. This is because having an experience of nearly 2 years in the field of mutual funds,gives me an idea and a chance to explore this upcoming industry and hence,this decision.

Though I am searching for a job in the field of finance,I have my interest in teaching,forget about the package-I need to gain experience first so that I get good breaks in the coming months.

CHEERS!

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Jagannath Dham Commercialisation!

Sad but true!

Today,I went to Puri,to have darshan of Chakka Dola (one of the names given to Lord Jagannath which refer to his circular(chakka-refering structure of the wheel) eyes(dola)) after a gap of one year. The moment our vehicle entered the city,I could see the changes. Traffic posts,cleaner roads,planned flow of traffic and planned busses to ply from the parking lot to the temple premises-just the way it was in Chinna Tirupati near Vijaywada.

Jolly well in a devotional swing as I was,I entered the Singha Dwara(the enterance to the temple) and was greeted by a whack from one of the pundits....." sacred whip",but the sacred whip is not that sacred. It is backed by a monetary motive which these Panda's eagerly wait for. If this is just a sample,walk with me to know more.

Now,I have started walking the first few steps of the "Baisa Pahacha"(22 steps), and there are Pandas trying to make a deal with me- "give me Rs.10 and I will take you to the altar for a closer darshan". Similarly many more swarmed in to strike a deal and unable to bear with them, I gave in to the one I found justified and followed him in (Puri was not a new place to me,but,given these eagles prying around-it was and will never be possible to have a peacefull darshan of the Lord). This was not the end. Previously,Bhog(offerings to God) were available in the open market in Anand Bazar( where you can savour dry food items as well as the Arna( rice prepared with pure ghee) at a reasonable price,served fresh and hot))but, today we have to buy them from special counters where nothing is available below Rs.50 or Rs.100. what the Panda gets here is the commision for the sale done. Good. there will be a process,beneficial to the Pandas,customer and the trust as well.

walking ahead,I entered the main temple and there starts the process of looting you every inch you try to budge closer to have a clear glimpse of the Lord Jagannath. Aarathi is free but not the Tirtham(divine water which is given as Prasadam to every devotee in any temple-small or big for free),when i asked for it,he said with a difference"dakshina nahin diya to nahin milega". ( make donation and take the Tirtham). Now when did this sacred water become a commodity exchanged for few coins or a paper note validated by the governor of RBI? Ridiculous! Isnt it?

And then, there are dallals hovering around asking questions"want a closer darshan? Pay Rs.10 and you will be allowed" and if you pay the guide less than Rs.10,you will hear something like these"aajkal Rs.5 main kya aata hai sir? Those Panda's near the Ratna Simhasan(the altar of the God) get to earn but what about us?" It seemed to me as if I were in a stock exchange and not in a temple- deals were every where,every nook and corner of the temple in every form!

I would rather advice anyone not to go,if at any cost you wish to go then have a pocket and purse full of cash or a bag full of arguements-these are the only two ways you can have a darshan!

Any how after dealings and settlements in Puri stock exchange,I had a darshan and moved towards Anand Bazar to savor the varities. "Bhai,yaade aaso....Arna garam!"(brother come here ..., rice is hot and fresh),echoes in the air from every direction you can make out. People from all the classes can be seen in this open restaurant of the God. Panda's of all the sizes can also be seen-rotund,thin,slim and stylish,ugly..... it is a unity in diversity here.....as every one there in the sales had only one motive-how to extract the maximum from the devotees!

I had,along with my friends,had a sumptous meal at around 4.30 in the evening and decided to take home a parcel of the fresh Arna and dalli(dal). Now be aware anyone,once you decide over a quantity and price-the contract is fixed! you cant cancel it and I faced a situation similar to that. I had run out of cash and was searching for my friends who seemed to have headed for the exit with out informing me..the momenyt i started searching them ,the shop owner had a doubt that I will not be paying for it and started a brawl.... it took me 10 mintues to make him understand that I had no intentions to cheat him. he said"why do you carry purse when you dont carry money?" Well,a question million dollars worth!!! they scan you every where and are the best eve teasers you can find any where..... be care ful when you try for a darshan....

there still is a place of respect for the place but to be frank,the commercialisation and greed exhibited by the Pandits made me change my mind- never ever to come to this place.

Tourist friends - its but a request,please donot pay them the exact amount whatever they ask for. God never has set the rule of "pay for my Darshan". It is a shame that in the name of God,these people make a living by unfair and unjust means. Discourage them by avoiding payments at every stage. then only can the temple's sanctity be preserved.

Jai Jagganath!

a decider!

NO POSTS!
.....unlike every other month,this month saw the least number of posts from my end..... caught up in some tensions and whirlwinds,I found lesser time to devote to blogosphere... well, what happened when I was not blogging?

Not a great issue to be discussed but not the one to be kept in wraps either.

New year resolutions every year went vague with some promises not to be kept but this year things were different. By the end of the last year I had decided to see changes in my personal life and thought about many things including my professional life. Working for a prestigious organisation was a dream for any one-fat pay,good work atmosphere,designation wise respectable and so .....but there was something which did keep my interests at bay. The job that I was doing was even being done by a graduate for a lesser pay and much effectively. why was I sweating out? was the objective of my life to be a relationship manager,wait for promotions,bonus and nod to my seniors for everything they said-right or wrong! Being a yes boss even after spending two years in my organisation to someone who didnot have a grasp of the subject was not my cup of tea. I needed to change. Time was the deciding factor as quiting jobs at this point of time when the markets are playing spoil sport was unwise,but I dared to think against the tide because for the first time I had something clear to forecast.

My life was not going to be under the directions of someone who didnot care to know what I cared or craved for. They who dont know or are not able to read your abilities have no right to rule your life.Atleast,I would not allow this. Hence,this year I decided to say quits and follow my heart... to a land where I can be free to show my abilities,express myself more clearly and enjoy my job.

Change is inevitable! this is one thing which has to be constant and rest all changing. I found my destination which i was not clear about since the day I became a professional. I felt somehow that I was not doing justice to the MBA certificate that I hard earned.

What I wish to say in this yawning post is that,dont blindly follow someone who doesnot know you. Rather,have an insight,peep into your self and come clear over your abilities so that you enjoy what you do.

Steer away from those islands which are tempting and promising but are a mirage for you. I made a decision today which is gonna help me change my lifestyle,my thinking and help me achieve my goal of pursuing Doctoral studies in the subject I have been associated with for the last two years.

"Reach to the brim in academics,so that you donot repent later. Opportunity comes once."

what an idea sir ji!

Creativity....changed life and changed the styles- in short,it changed the life styles of the people in and around us. some ideas are worth and mean a lot while some are hair raising and some weird!!!!

a weird idea from my friend

EMPLOYMENT FOR THE HANDICAPS
I think it is one of the novel ideas which cud have ever come to any one...... but the thought that follows this thought is some thiing different...... jindagi badal de!!!!

One day when I and my friend were chit chatting,suddenly he hit upon the idea of providing jobs to the handicapped.but what gave me a jolt was his idea of "their creation"!!!! it bounced..... i know! i will explain........

choose two young people from each family,disable them by a hand and a leg and then provide them a job in the "viklang/handicapped category"!!!!

No head of the state would have not even come across this thought of employing his umemployed youth this way as my frnd has thought...... it sent me shivers for a second and the other minute I was rolling with laughter then, a bit serious thought and explanation from him said it was justified.....he had a double edged sword.....employment for the youth as well as work for those who illegally break bones and go behnd the bars. This would help the governments in power as it would help them in providing 100% employment,thus eradicating poverty!

Good Idea dear,but this would help them even more selfish.....one more chance to garner votes for thier party(s) by showing sympathy towards their own victims who would not be knowing their predator...once again reservations and chaos...... think abt the scenario and it will be a cycle very big......

Well,talking on this issue,let me share a real life incident...

This happened to me when i was playing cricket 6 years back. An accident due to lack of common sense on my part!
......a fielding done,a throw from the deep,a hit and an accident in the eye! Awwww!!!!

I should have ducked when the throw came my way but I didnot. The ball did what it should have done....it hit the obstruction,fell down and made me writh in pain for a minute before the game stopped!

It hit my right eye,the ball being a tennis ball fit right into my socket and made me nearly blind for sometime before a Doctor intervened and played the role of the Almighty. The only ridiculuous thought that passed me while in pain was :an eye lost is a job gained in governement sector! absolutely ridiculous-isnt it? :)

Those who are living with handicap know the pain more than me who did play a joke cruelly like this. Being a handicap is not a boon but its not even soemthing to be disheartend... they have the capacity to turn things around for where there is will there is a way!
It may seem to be a crap for many...but sorry for those who find it in a bad taste.

Comments pls.

so the year starts like this

Welcome 2009!!!

I expected the year 2009 to start without any negative news but it happened. Murphy's law application seemed to be imminent- markets were positive and things seemed to be fine when the Satyam case dropped a bombshell....and BOOM! things crashed!

This is the first news of the year which had a deep impact as per my knowledge. I dont know what prompted him to do so but things have not only gone wrong for him..... the macro effect can be seen. ..... i dont need to stress on that.

In other case,India has proved successfully that Pakistan had supported the terror attacks in Mumbai and has won the confidence universally. Its good to know that there is concern for the cause but is that the end? what will be the next step in eradication of terrorism? What will happen of Kasab? will he be sentenced to death or will he be held in jail till some one hijacks a plane or creates havoc enough to let the Indian Government free him? there are many events where such things have happened and we have some how been responsible for the mayhem being caused by the so called jihadis or call them by what ever name ....these fanatics are a creation which should be destroyed in the bud itself!

Had it not been that vote bank politics and games were not introduced in our so called democartic country where democracy seems to be in the books of the constitution,law and schools,there exists no real thing as democracy and freedom within! why do we have sections of the society which crave for reservations? why do we have considerations for castes when it comes to jobs? I dont think terrorists need to be educated in Madrasas or in our neighboring country but with such differences created by our political demi gods its but an automatic process of transformation!!! till the time these selfish creatures of the political world are done away with,there wont be a law which can hold us united. Other wise every law created will have a fissure and let the terror and corruption seep in to finally break the barrier and create panic,havoc and what ever adjective we can use to describe terror.

Sorry,that was a drift from the topic but it has got a lot to do with our GOvernments which we select. There may be many cases happening this year like Satyam or many more massacres like that of Mumbai last year but these need an intervention from the people who really are responsible for indifference in their attitude towards problems which are bulging in magnitude today!

So,we were talking about the great 2009 scam. nothing more to talk on that. Now lets see some PILs being filed by some real concerned mothers and "Indians" who bellieve that some movies like Ghajini can do damage to the morality and attitude in a child by pointing to some example of a three year old boy having tattoed his body with words like REVENGE,thus replicating Aamir.

I have one very simple question to this Motherly figure who doesnot mind being mindless at times to get noticed publicly with her so called concerns..... What is your answer to the cartoon channels like Cartoon network,Jetix and other such channels which show some violent shows including some obscene type cartoon creations of female charecters which are not animations for the children but for our ages?

where goes the thought of morality and the children getting spoiled or influenced by such shows? the impact of these shows is rather much than the Ghajini which will fade in some days. Technically speaking the top of mind impression created by these cartoons is more than what Aamir can create by his eight packs,tattoos and his hair styles! who uses the bayblades and cartoon tatoos? who encourages the toys purchase of transformers and other jetix charecters???
Madam it is not Aamir.....it is the unconscious Ghajini in you and every other parent which is silently sowing the seed in them....let the moral education begin at home!

so this is how the year started....though many more are there I thought these are some issues which have caught my attention and let me tap in on this blog....whats your view?

negative and positive

A dark thing is but a block to transparency....an objection to free flow. Isnt it? similary if you end up getting someone who always cribs and thinks negative always becomes a negative example for others.....a sort of gloomy atmosphere gets created,a doom of darkness and door ways of no solutions are visible...life seems to be getting sucked up by a vaccum known as difficulties which tend to take a gigantic shape than in general.

I dont say that i am an alien to these- I have been through with these situations and today despite my efforts to be always positive,i fail to be so at times. However,there is one thing-I never lose hope. I know these dark clouds are for a short time and will pass for sure.
At office,am a star negatively seen...i dont mind being made a scape goat or being fired everyday. Reason is simple- I know whats wrong and where,I dont depend on others judgement when the latter doesnot know anything and goes on pounding things upon me,ordering me and blaming me. Pressure is right in North and there is no harm trying to push some down south....we all have to bear it in tough situations... some are fortunate enough to avoid it by showing some good results as a matter of luck while others like me who base their arguements on genuine facts end being a fool... for the person listening these,these are but mere excuses but facts which block the flow of work...... why did I write all this???
Only to tell you that the perception of me always giving lame excuses makes my boss feel am a loser and a negative viber in our team while i know whats being done at ground level to turn negative things positive here.... it makes me go negative for a while,with energy drained out but very soon i come back to my self-refreshed with new energy,ready to take charge of the battle as a leader... this is me....a part of me and my story.

now look at this...
i got introduced to a guy ,who happens to be our channel partner, last month.There was a positive thought in me .... a new addition for business and new counter for revenue generation and as he is of my age,things should not have been difficult. The twist however came later.

He started confiding in me,his problems-professional and personal. I heard it attentively as i had a habit of helping others with their problems-something whcih i am very successful till date, and thought that i should be with him for sometime till i came to realise that association with him was doing him no good rather was turning my world gloomy!!!!

negative vibes from him started occupying my head and i became a dull dude as him... i didnot realise it till the time the impact started to reflect on my business and the moment i analysed,i decided to draw a line and maintain distance..... since a couple of days,things are back to order.

this guy has a friend who happens to be my friend even before i met him. he has a vibrance so positive tht even if things are not going good, he will make u smile. thats the attitude which can take us miles even if roads are rough and since the day i started moving with him,things were back to brightness as they were...
I always believe in one principle.....Put ur efforts and work with ur heart- success is bound to follow. I never give up nor do i have a habit to wilt under pressure.... i have learnt to manage things under the sun even in negative times...tough times dont last as tough people do.....

i say ....negative people and times dont last long....only positive attitude does...
friends let us be going good with our targets and thoughts however hard it be for us to survive...... things gonna be ok one day ...... chale chalo!

Hindu,Muslim,Christian and an Indian

CONVERSIONS! PROTESTS!WAR! RIOTS!
this is not a headline or a flash in any news channel nor is it a shocking news any more if we come across any of them..... i used to wonder till date why there were riots and protests in the name of God,spread across all the religions in our country- a multli dialogue,multi faceted,multi lingual,united nation known as INDIA!
Where there is democracy and freedom of speech,things seem to have become more restricted including the right to express thoughts freely....freedom of common man has gone for a toss and those who are benefiting from the use are the ones having power,paisa and control over the rights and activites we do.
....and there are people who have a strong point to prove that their religion is powerful than that of the others. Religion seems to have become a scape goat for the powerful and those in publicity.
A hindu has a point, a Muslim has a point to prove,Christians have their own point and there is no Indian who has a point to prove that there is unity in diversity..... where is the INDIAN?
Take the case of the recent terror attack in Mumbai.... there were many who did protest the killings,condemend it and even went a step ahead to declare that we should severe our ties with our neighboring nation......but what was missing was the unity pan India.... Remember 9/11 incident? what was the united action there and what is it here? i dont say we should be attacking and destroying them from the root but,we should be united enough to defend and thwart any such attacks.
if that is a macro view and not that justified,think about the cases in Orissa and neighboring states where sects are at war footing over conversions and preaching of chrisitianity..... are not we doing a mistake here??
what when a group of muslims fights for the cause of their sect and shouts "justice for minority" and what for a hindu who says protect hindu's from conversion and build a ram rajya ..... why are we stressing for religions loudly at a level beyond the personal boundary? arent religions supposed to mean way to serve God irrespective of the name which we know them by? as we read newspapers in different languages for our better understanding so are the rules of the religions framed....preaching one and the same message but in a different lanuage understood well by the people who divide themselves into groups known as sects and form a protfolio known as religion only to push themselves into the darkness of the so called religion....

how many hindus know what Gita has to say? many of us dont know....other than some of the famous verses which we have heard in "Mahabharat" epic serial song....yada yada hi dharmasya...... dont we?
how many muslims who preach and teach quran know the exact meaning of each verse? very few but still then there are many who preach it in the wrong way....is jehad one of the ways prescribed by Allah??? i wont believe and buy this ...Allah or God or Bhagwan .... they never teach us to fight...they asked us to fight the evil and when every one present on earth has done some evil who gives them a right to punish the other???
when i come across such incidents as conversions,i have one question that immediately comes to my mind.....are the rest of Gods over powered by Jesus??? Sorry. I too respect all the religions and my name being Sai,i try to justify by treating all the sects and gods as one....but why do we convert? the motive behind this seems to be monetary than devotion...and if that is the reason we re misleading people..... why do we get attracted to bible more? a couple of converts i met said the power of Christ is what you get to know when you read the Bible.... agreed.
Didnot you find the time to read Bhagwad gita and try to understand the nuances as much as you are trying to understand the power by reading bible and attending sunday prayers???? who stopped you from going to temple and praying for an hour and discussing the purans with the pundits? if you dont understand sanskrit,there are preachers who would enjoy passing on the message too like the father in a church or a maulvi.... why cant it be done?
I would love to read the Bible,the Quran and the Gita and understand the message which unitedly they send.....and yet remain loyal to my religion....cant we do it?
and there is a contra thought....who are we to stop those who want to convert? its their interst and devotion which has made them do so...... if the poor today are surviving,it is the missionaries which feed them....there were great Indians in the past whom we talk about and do least to follow them but missionaries and charities are not like that...as far as i have seen,they provide the deprived a chance to live and earn and the price is but a conversion.....
WHTS THE HARM?????
when we are unable to set up institutions which can feed the poor,who are we to stop the messengers of God?
an Indian would always think wise,a person pertaining to a religion would think it the other way because he is not an Indian.....

sorry if any how this has hurt the sentiments or has made u feel it a crap.....
pour in ur comments.....

MERRY CHRISTMAS