A dark thing is but a block to transparency....an objection to free flow. Isnt it? similary if you end up getting someone who always cribs and thinks negative always becomes a negative example for others.....a sort of gloomy atmosphere gets created,a doom of darkness and door ways of no solutions are visible...life seems to be getting sucked up by a vaccum known as difficulties which tend to take a gigantic shape than in general.
I dont say that i am an alien to these- I have been through with these situations and today despite my efforts to be always positive,i fail to be so at times. However,there is one thing-I never lose hope. I know these dark clouds are for a short time and will pass for sure.
At office,am a star negatively seen...i dont mind being made a scape goat or being fired everyday. Reason is simple- I know whats wrong and where,I dont depend on others judgement when the latter doesnot know anything and goes on pounding things upon me,ordering me and blaming me. Pressure is right in North and there is no harm trying to push some down south....we all have to bear it in tough situations... some are fortunate enough to avoid it by showing some good results as a matter of luck while others like me who base their arguements on genuine facts end being a fool... for the person listening these,these are but mere excuses but facts which block the flow of work...... why did I write all this???
Only to tell you that the perception of me always giving lame excuses makes my boss feel am a loser and a negative viber in our team while i know whats being done at ground level to turn negative things positive here.... it makes me go negative for a while,with energy drained out but very soon i come back to my self-refreshed with new energy,ready to take charge of the battle as a leader... this is me....a part of me and my story.
now look at this...
i got introduced to a guy ,who happens to be our channel partner, last month.There was a positive thought in me .... a new addition for business and new counter for revenue generation and as he is of my age,things should not have been difficult. The twist however came later.
He started confiding in me,his problems-professional and personal. I heard it attentively as i had a habit of helping others with their problems-something whcih i am very successful till date, and thought that i should be with him for sometime till i came to realise that association with him was doing him no good rather was turning my world gloomy!!!!
negative vibes from him started occupying my head and i became a dull dude as him... i didnot realise it till the time the impact started to reflect on my business and the moment i analysed,i decided to draw a line and maintain distance..... since a couple of days,things are back to order.
this guy has a friend who happens to be my friend even before i met him. he has a vibrance so positive tht even if things are not going good, he will make u smile. thats the attitude which can take us miles even if roads are rough and since the day i started moving with him,things were back to brightness as they were...
I always believe in one principle.....Put ur efforts and work with ur heart- success is bound to follow. I never give up nor do i have a habit to wilt under pressure.... i have learnt to manage things under the sun even in negative times...tough times dont last as tough people do.....
i say ....negative people and times dont last long....only positive attitude does...
friends let us be going good with our targets and thoughts however hard it be for us to survive...... things gonna be ok one day ...... chale chalo!
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