but as we grew up..... expectations grew with us silently preparing a ground for the attack. for some life of responsibilities start at a very ripe age and for some there is always a time yet to come.... kya lucky hain woh boss!!
As a child,we are more important than any thing in the world but , the importance and focus changes as we celebrate our birthday every year.... good ranks,higher studies,good placement and jobs with good packages,marriage,children and parenthood where, we see a reflection of both the sides- the way our parents bought us up and the way we grew as children... we come to understand at that point why our parents restrained us from eating ice creams or asked us to use monkey caps in winter ,not to go to movies,not to play outside and focus more on studies and also will come to know our own reactions to such sanctions and happiness at times when father would buy us a pair of new shoes or a new trouser and shirt on birthdays.....
life is like that.... some thing that we face in between is the part of the movie which we didnot see when our father was at office-reporting to his boss,trying to meet his targets and in the process getting fed up with the tauntings for not doing things on time or doing things which bosses dont like(there comes the ego factor) or getting frustrated with the hurdles.... we always saw our father coming back home tired and angry,at times happy ...we,as a child, know papa is happy with us when he brings us sweets and some toys or never questions why we need pocket money.... that is the time when papa used to get his salary and or the work pressure is not very high-we know that when we get our salary or at the time when our targets are fufilled or that we are having not much of work load and try to shower some happiness for our all those around us. ( this is an instance,need not be the same in all the cases...)
life is not as hard as we think while on job... we feel over burdened and at times when people like me dont know how to manage things,tend to find ways to find an excuse..... something which is an art in the field of marketing.... what i have observed is that in order to survive,we need to have some skill or the other-either that we should be a gladiator or a stage player donning all the roles as we proceed.... i prefer to be both....gladiator and a stage player....life cant be one but, both. and there is one part of me which I want to preserve for ever..... my tendency to behave like a child..... it keeps me young .....who wants to grow old and count grey hairs????
not me!
yaba daba dooooooooooo....... i wanaa be a menacing child----boooooooooooo.......!!!!!!!
le'me know any changes if required.....welcome
Hello Sai,
ReplyDeleteSomebody had rightly said that you can find prosperity in adversity, happiness in suffering as long as you do not lose the child like innocence in your heart.
That's really true and difficult to achieve.